A good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.
Henry CloudWhatever's happening today, remember it is only ONE SCENE in a long movie. Don't treat it like it's the whole story. Keep writing the story.
Henry CloudSpouses in healthy relationships cherish each other's space and are champions of each other's causes.
Henry CloudDon't go overboard in praising required behavior: 'We have only done our duty' (Luke 17:10). But do go overboard when your child confesses the truth, repents honestly, takes chances, and loves openly. Praise the developing character in your child as it emerges in active, loving, responsible behavior.
Henry Cloud