One of the first signs that you’re beginning to develop boundaries is a sense of resentment, frustration, or anger at the subtle and not-so-subtle violations in your life. Just as radar signals the approach of a foreign missile, your anger can alert you to boundary violations in your life.
Henry CloudCouples often live out years of falsehood trying to protect and save a relationship, all the while destroying any chance of real relationship.
Henry CloudWe all make mistakes, but the people who thrive from their mistakes are the successful ones.
Henry CloudA good test of a relationship is how a person responds to the word 'no.' Love respects 'no,' control does not.
Henry CloudWhen truth presents itself, the wise person see the light, takes it in, and makes adjustments. The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.
Henry CloudDon't go overboard in praising required behavior: 'We have only done our duty' (Luke 17:10). But do go overboard when your child confesses the truth, repents honestly, takes chances, and loves openly. Praise the developing character in your child as it emerges in active, loving, responsible behavior.
Henry Cloud