One of the first signs that you’re beginning to develop boundaries is a sense of resentment, frustration, or anger at the subtle and not-so-subtle violations in your life. Just as radar signals the approach of a foreign missile, your anger can alert you to boundary violations in your life.

In the end, as a leader, you are always going to get a combination of two things: what you create and what you allow.

Things don't change in a marriage until the spouse who is taking responsibility for a problem that is not hers decides to say or do something about it.

Getting to the next level always requires ending something, leaving it behind, and moving on. Growth demands that we move on. Without the ability to end things, people stay stuck, never becoming who they are meant to be, never accomplishing all that their talents and abilities should afford them.

One of the worst things you can die with is potential.

The fool tries to adjust the truth so he does not have to adjust to it.

There is a difference between solitude and isolation. One is connected and one isn't. Solitude replenishes, isolation diminishes.