An argument is always about what has been made more important than the relationship.
Being myself includes taking risks with myself, taking risks on new behavior, trying new ways of 'being myself', so that I can see who it is I want to be.
Because the results are unpredictable, no effort of mine is doomed to failure.
Today I don't want to live for, I want to live.
When I have listened to my mistakes, I have grown.
To live for results would be to sentence myself to continuous frustration. My only sure reward is in my actions and not from them.