An argument is always about what has been made more important than the relationship.

The first step of letting go: To remove what obstructs your experience of wholeness and peace, you must first look at the obstruction.

We feel understood by people who like us; misunderstood by people who don't -- and those feelings are probably realistic.

You're wrong means that I don't understand you, I'm not seeing what you're seeing- and I'm not seeing all of you there is to see. But there is nothing wrong with you. You are what you need to be, doing what you need to be doing, and although I may take steps to protect myself of others, I do not know all and therefore am literally inadequate to judge.

It is enough that I am of value to somebody today.

Whenever we condemn, we cloak the world in pain.

If the desire to write is not accompanied by actual writing, then the desire must be not to write.