Exercise power by means of kindness, and you may be causing more damage than you could by cruelty. Neither approach is correct.
Idries ShahMany things which are called 'secrets' are only things withheld from people until they can understand or effectively experience them.
Idries ShahMan (and woman) has an infinite capacity for self-development. Equally, he has an infinite capacity for self-destruction. A human being may be clinically alive and yet, despite all appearances, spiritually dead.
Idries ShahThere is a Persian proverb: 'To test that which has been tested is ignorance.' To try to test something without the means of testing is even worse.
Idries Shah