Many things which are called 'secrets' are only things withheld from people until they can understand or effectively experience them.
Idries ShahTalking about straws and camels' backs is just one way of approaching things. If you have enough camels, no backs need be broken.
Idries ShahYou need not wonder whether you should have an unreliable person as a friend. An unreliable person is nobody's friend.
Idries Shah