Love at a distance may be poignant; it is also idealized. Contact, more than separation, is the test of attachment.
Ilka Chasewhen men don't like another man everyone assumes he's no good and that the men know what they are talking about, yet when women dislike another woman people just think they're being catty.
Ilka ChaseOn the whole, I haven't found men unduly loath to say, 'I love you.' The real trick is to get them to say, 'Will you marry me?
Ilka Chase