Rather than beating yourself up for what you are not doing, appreciate and celebrate the things you are doing. When you shift your focus away from what you do not want, you can create a vision for what you do. Don't fight with yourself - focus on what you do, can do, choose to do, are ready to do.
Iyanla VanzantUse your time, energy and talents to do the best you can right now. Spend no time wishing it were better
Iyanla VanzantKnow thyself. Accept thyself. Love thyself. No matter what you have done, where you have been, know, accept, and love who you are.
Iyanla VanzantWhy are you measuring? This is how you block, delay, hinder, obstruct and deny his place in the life as a father.
Iyanla Vanzant