If you are a card-carrying human being, chances are that you share the same fear as all other humans: the fear of losing love, respect and connection to others. And if you are human, in order to avoid or prevent the pain, trauma and perceived devastation of the loss, you will do anything to avoid your greatest fear from being visited on you.
Iyanla VanzantPeople may not like what you do, people may not like how you do it, but these people are not living your life. You are!
Iyanla VanzantIf you are afraid to take a chance, take one anyway. What you don't do can create the same regrets as the mistakes you make.
Iyanla VanzantOne thing that prevents a man from being a good father is he hasn't completed being a boy.
Iyanla VanzantI have learned the hard way to mind my business, without judging who people are and what they do. I am more troubled by the lack of space being provided for the truth to unfold. Humans cannot seem to wait for or honor the truth. Instead, we make it up based on who we believe people should or should not be.
Iyanla Vanzant