When you don't show up as who you are, people fall in love with who you're not. Then when they find out who you are, that's when they leave.

I surround people in unconditional acceptance and love to such a degree that everything that is unloving about them rises to the surface.

The goal of life is not to win. It is to play the game with love. The rules of the game are: have a strong desire to win, believe that you are worthy of winning, have faith that you will win, and, as long as you are alive, never believe that the game is over.

You've got to have a vision and an intention and that will guide what you do. I call it devotion. Ask yourself, "Is this not moving me toward where we need to be?" I believe that's helpful because a vision pulls you forward and it keeps you focused. A vision for the day, for the week, for the month and a lifelong vision - whatever works for you. And then you govern your activities and your behaviors accordingly.

Your willingness to look at your darkness is what empowers you to change

Black Girls rock because we have no other choice.

Mistakes are lessons that you need to learn!