Most of us have just learned to exercise our survival muscle. It's time to build our victory muscle.

I've always told the truth. I think that's been part of the foundation of my career. I don't put myself above people. I don't put myself different than people. And I, for one, know that none of us is immune.

One of the ways that people avoid taking responsibility for their role in their own pain is what I call the BPs - blame and projection.

Everyone has a purpose because God is a purposeful God.

As you move through the day, be aware of how you treat yourself. Be aware of what you do to and for yourself, because you set the standard for others. As you grow in your awareness of how you treat yourself, you will probably become aware of the example you have set for others. You may realize that the time has come to set a new example.

You are demonstrating to men that they can come back and get their kids. All of those fatherless sons and daddy-less daughters and the men who didn't know how to go back, you are demonstrating to the world that they can.

I now know that nothing in my life will change until I change the way I see my life and myself.