Well the beauty of 'Iyanla: Fix My Life' is that men are in every show. To our surprise, some of the deepest healing demonstrations have been with the men - the sons, the fathers, the husbands - because they agree to participate with the wife or the daughter or whatever it is we are looking at, and it is there.

So many of us invest a fortune making ourselves look good to the world, yet inside we are falling apart. It's time to invest on the inside.

If it's not your story to tell, you don't tell it.

Some children do what they’re told to do; some children do what they’re told not to do; all children do what they’re parents have done.

Lives fall apart when they need to be rebuilt.

I now know that nothing in my life will change until I change the way I see my life and myself.

You've got to be willing to lose everything to gain yourself.