Life is simply a connect-the dots game, and all the dots have already been identified and organized by somebody else. All you have to do is follow the blueprint, use the system, or work the program that they provide.

One needs to have some sense of purpose. Next, you need to have a vision that grows out of that purpose.

Success is the ability to do what you want, whenever you want, as often as you want.

When you accomplish a goal, don't cross it out. Instead, write 'victory' next to it and move on to the next one. This way, whenever you have a bad day, all you have to do is to review your victories to feel good about yourself.

Clarify your purpose. What is the why behind everything you do? When we know this in life or design it is very empowering and the path is clear.

What is the why behind everything you do?

The meaning of self-esteem is to feel lovable and capable. As parents, we must love our children unconditionally and give them a sense of being nurtured. That's the lovable part. Then, we must provide structure - rules, boundaries, daily or weekly household tasks that give them a sense they are making a contribution. That's what helps kids grow up feeling capable.