Men are every bit as gendered as women.
In real life, women dont enjoy being degraded and treated like objects/receptacles.
Language usage always has a political context.
Typical news accounts and commentaries about school shootings and rampage killings rarely mention gender.
Elite athletes learn entitlement. They believe they are entitled to have women serve their needs. It's part of being a man. It's the cultural construction of masculinity.
We need to redefine strength in men, not as the power over other people, but as forces for justice.