The act of not discussing or confiding the event with another may be more damaging than having experienced the event per se.
James W. PennebakerOne of the most interesting results was part of a study my students and I conducted dealing with status in email correspondence. Basically, we discovered that in any interaction, the person with the higher status uses I-words less (yes, less) than people who are low in status.
James W. PennebakerAs the number of studies increased, it became clear that writing was a far more powerful tool for healing than anyone had ever imagined.
James W. Pennebaker