I have frequently detected myself in such kind of mistakes... in a total misapprehension of character at some point or other: fancying people so much more gay or grave, or ingenious or stupid than they really are, and I can hardly tell why, or in what the deception originated. Sometimes one is guided by what other people say of them, without giving oneself time to deliberate and judge.
Jane AustenA man who has nothing to do with his own time has no conscience in his intrusion on that of others.
Jane AustenI have never yet found that the advice of a Sister could prevent a young Man's being in love if he chose it.
Jane AustenI cannot think well of a man who sports with any woman's feelings; and there may often be a great deal more suffered than a stander-by can judge of.
Jane Austen