Dress is at all times a frivolous distinction, and excessive solicitude about it often destroys its own aim.
Jane AustenFrom the very beginningโ from the first moment, I may almost sayโ of my acquaintance with you, your manners, impressing me with the fullest belief of your arrogance, your conceit, and your selfish disdain of the feelings of others, were such as to form the groundwork of disapprobation on which succeeding events have built so immovable a dislike; and I had not known you a month before I felt that you were the last man in the world whom I could ever be prevailed on to marry.
Jane Austen