There is nothing you can control about love.
To talk about a relationship trivializes something that's nobody's business.
I think when you're off the clock, you should be off the clock.
Just be mindful of what you're doing.
If you're not happy, you can become happy. Happiness is a choice.
One tradition I have with my friends is that when one of us gets married, we have a ton of fragrance oils and pretty bottles at the bachelorette party. Everyone puts a drop or two in a bottle for the bride and makes a wish, and the bride wears our creation on her wedding day.