One person caring about another represents life's greatest value.
Life is accumulative - Either our errors accumulate to what we don't get, or our wise decisions accumulate into what we do get.
Success lies in the opposite direction of the normal pull.
My suggestion would be to walk away from the 90% who don't and join the 10% who do.
There are always a half-dozen things that make 80%of the difference. Only SIX things!
Life is a unique combination of "want to" and "how to" and we need to give equal attention to both.