Don't ask for security, ask for adventure
Help people with problems, your problems disappear.
Pity the man who has a favorite restaurant, but not a favorite author. He's picked out a favorite place to feed his body, but he doesn't have a favorite place to feed his mind!
Average people look forward to "getting off." Successful people look forward to "getting on."
The walls we build around us to keep sadness out also keeps out the joy.
Keep the weeds of negative influence from your life. 'Farm' the seeds of constructive influence.