We need to give thought, but we also need to take action. You need to dream without just being a dreamer.
What you have at the moment you have attracted by the person you have become.
You must either modify your dreams or magnify your skills
If you say something and back it up with your actions, you will provide the 'proof' for people who are listening to you, and they will much more willingly follow your lead.
There is nothing more pitiful than a ready and willing mind but an incapable body.
Nothing teaches character better than generosity.