My suggestion would be to walk away from the 90% who don't and join the 10% who do.
Stand guard at the door of your mind.
We get paid for bringing value to the marketplace. It takes time,... but we get paid for the value, not the time.
You must get good at one of two things; planting in the spring or begging in the fall.
It's not what happens, it's what you do that determines your future.
Books are easy to find and easy to buy. A paperback these days only costs six or seven dollars. You can borrow that from your kids!