Dialing down is not an option for me.
I just get up every day and do what seems like the most interesting, fun thing to do.
I am really accessible.
My being some kind of celebrity - not a real celebrity, isn't a welcome part of the job.
There's a big tendency to gravitate toward a closed and proprietary approach too easily.
My view is that good community management is like having good municipal government: You should be able to have dissenting opinions and so on, freedom of speech, but your grandmother should also be able to walk down the street at night without having to worry about getting mugged.