In a real relationship the two of you are together, meeting without your histories.
Where there's self importance, there's only a very little bit of you and that little bit is distorted. It's in a holding pattern that is false to what it knows. That holding pattern forbids you, in that little bit of you, from being the rest of you.
Your life has little purpose if you are separate from your own knowledge within.
What you are is the most subtle delicacy of being.
Integrate the unseen of what you first are in the midst of all things seen.
When you, awareness, are mastered by the deepest that you know the truth of, then you are no longer awareness. You are oneness aware mastering your self and your life.