Augustus, perhaps youโd like to share your fears with the group.โ โMy fears?โ โYes.โ โI fear oblivion,โ he said without a momentโs pause. โI fear it like the proverbial blind man whoโs afraid of the dark.โ โToo soon,โ Isaac said, cracking a smile. โWas that insensitive?โ Augustus asked. โI can be pretty blind to other peopleโs feelings.
John GreenIt was psychological trick called empathic listening. You say what the person is feeling so they feel understood.
John GreenThat feeling of finishedness does not come all at once, and it is not easily won, but I think once you get there it is hard to go back.
John Green