There's something about marriage that is not as intensely romantic or interesting as a couple's first meeting.
John SandfordWhen you're building a character, or at least when I'm building a character, you start saying, 'How am I going to make people like him?'
John SandfordMost people who are trying to write kind of sit in their basements and pull it out of their imaginations.
John SandfordAs an individual with my own hurts, I go into the Garden (Gethsemane) as often as I need to. There I identify with the pain in the other, with my part in that pain, my part in tempting someone to wound me. I experience the other's pain, and God's pain, and am devastated - because their pain becomes my own. Feeling such anguish, I can forgive, or deeply repent, either for myself or on behalf of the other.
John Sandford