You do what you have to do to give people closure; it makes them feel better and it doesn't cost you much to do it. I'd rather apologize for something I didn't really care about and leave someone on Earth wishing me well.
John ScalziIt's easier to miss her at a cemetery, where she's never been anything but dead, than to miss her at all the places where she was alive.
John ScalziThere's a difference between the fact that the universe is inherently unfair on a cosmic level, and the fact that life is unfair because people are actively making it so.
John Scalzi