Nobody is defeated until he starts blaming somebody else. My advice to you is don't fix the blame. Fix the problem.
How hard you work at correcting your faults reveals your character.
As a leader, you will receive a large amount of praise and criticism and you should not unduly affected by either.
When everyone has good players, teaching will be a telling difference.
Never mistake activity for achievement.
Intensity makes you stronger. Emotionalism makes you weaker.