If you lose self-control everything will fall.
Good coaching is about leadership and instilling respect in your players. Dictators lead through fear - good coaches do not.
You have not taught until they have learned.
The most powerful leadership tool you have is your personal example.
You get ideas across better through listening and the pat-on-the-back method than you do with a kick on the pants.
A Coach must never forget that he is a leader and not merely a person with authority.