When a person is carrying their sin, it can be quite a load...I don't know what else to do with your sin but confess and ask God to forgive it.
To influence others must keep growing themselves.
If you listen to your people they'll tell you what's important.
Men die the way they lived.
We ought to love the sinner and hate OUR sin.
If you are godly it has been because you have been made godly.