Most people don't believe in themselves.
If you are godly it has been because you have been made godly.
You cannot lead people you do not influence.
Jesus Christ was the ultimate influencer. My life has been influenced by Jesus more than anyone else.
Everyone of you got to where you are because someone influenced you.
When a person is carrying their sin, it can be quite a load...I don't know what else to do with your sin but confess and ask God to forgive it.