How do we regulate our emotions? The answer is surprisingly simple: by thinking about them. The prefrontal cortex allows each of us to contemplate his or her own mind, a talent psychologists call metacognition. We know when we are angry; every emotional state comes with self-awareness attached, so that an individual can try to figure out why he's feeling what he's feeling. If the particular feeling makes no senseโif the amygdala is simply responding to a loss frame, for exampleโthen it can be discounted. The prefrontal cortex can deliberately choose to ignore the emotional brain.
Jonah LehrerWhile human nature largely determines how we hear the notes, it is nurture that lets us hear the music.
Jonah LehrerI want to give people theories, I want to expose them to scientific stories that force them to re-evaluate the way they use these three pounds of meat inside their head.
Jonah LehrerHarlow would later write, "If monkeys have taught us anything, it's that you've got to learn how to love before you learn how to live.
Jonah LehrerJust because an idea is true doesn't mean it can be proved. And just because an idea can be proved doesn't mean it's true.
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