Only God is capable of telling us what our rights and needs are. You have to surrender that right to Him.
Joni Eareckson TadaMany people in the throes of suffering, disappointment, and despair, feel utterly stuck in their circumstances. They see no hope beyond their day-to-day drudgery of disability routines; but when hurting families place themselves under the shower of God's mercy, suddenly the clouds part. They realize there's hope, life, and even joy beyond their suffering.
Joni Eareckson TadaIn the Christian faith, God really puts suffering front and center. He doesn't get squeamish about it.
Joni Eareckson Tada