Should you happen to notice that another person is extremely tall or overweight, eats too much or declines convivial drinks, has red hair or goes about in a wheelchair, ought to get married or ought not to be pregnant -- see if you can refrain from bringing these astonishing observations to that person's attention.
Judith MartinEmail is very informal, a memo. But I find that not signing off or not having a salutation bothers me.
Judith MartinIt is said that dispensing advice is easy. What is difficult is getting anyone to listen to it.
Judith MartinHonesty is a virtue, but not the only one. If you're in a courtroom you need the whole truth and nothing but the truth; in the living room, sometimes you need anything but. Often.
Judith MartinSociety cannot exist without etiquette ... It never has, and until our own century, everybody knew that.
Judith Martin