Your soul mate can turn into your cell mate if the mutual desire for growth isn't there.

Words ride on the energy of tone, its warmth or coldness; think of tone as the music of how words are expressed. You want this music to be soulful, whether you're giving sweet talk or tough love.

When you have no idea how to surrender and you're tied up in knots, JUST BREATHE!

Sustaining silence and circumspection are two behaviors that lead to better, healthier outcomes. They are powerful without dominating.

People who feel the need to push and control tend to keep their feelings bottled up. As a result, they get shut down or remote, and their feelings come out in twisted, unhealthy ways. They become irritable, passive-aggressive, or volatile, for example. Surrendered people make great lovers. They can be spontaneous and playful. They love to feel and express all of their emotions. They look vibrant, healthy, and energetic.

Surrendered people enjoy life, relish their personal development, and value their friends. They may have an exceptionally good career and be wealthy, but they are more concerned with meaning and fulfillment. The drive to acquire money and power is a behavior that drains people of their passion and emotional connection to others.

Trying to force things only disturbs your goals. Forcing will not help. Everything happens in its right time.