How you react emotionally is a choice in any situation
If an organ gets a "dis-ease" you want to care for it like a wounded friend, not an enemy who's turned against you.
Release all the anxiety that keeps you from moving ahead. Keep breathing it out and letting it go.
Spirituality is not for sale. It must be developed.
When you have no idea how to surrender and you're tied up in knots, JUST BREATHE!
It's good to be incompatible with your partner sometimes. It causes your souls to stretch & grow - the point of a soul mate!