Another reality is a whisper away.

The most influential person in the room isn't the one who is being a bully, talking loudly, and imposing him- or herself on others. Surrendered people understand that true power comes from being respectful and listening. Surrendered people know themselves and are empathetic toward others. They don't measure themselves by how much they are liked, nor do they compete for attention. When they sit quietly in a room, others always seem to come to them.

Another reality is a whisper away.

Being a control freak makes us tense, stressed out, and unpleasant to be with.

Surrender is a state of living in the flow, trusting what is, and being open to serendipity and surprises.

Surrendered people enjoy life, relish their personal development, and value their friends. They may have an exceptionally good career and be wealthy, but they are more concerned with meaning and fulfillment. The drive to acquire money and power is a behavior that drains people of their passion and emotional connection to others.

Don't try to control what's outside. Be at peace with what's inside.