We live in a society now where it's very rare for your parents to be around. It used to be like, your mother, grandmothers, your family around would help. Now, you're surrounded by other moms and friends and it's really disorienting, because there's such varying, crazy, different points of view and advice coming at you.

As an actor, you know, I love not being pigeonholed, which is great. No one really knows who I am. So that's a positive.

There's such a crazy social expectation now that we put on ourselves and on each other about what motherhood is supposed to look and feel like. And it's impossible to live up to those standards. You're setting yourself up for failure at every possible turn.

I'm perfect. We're all perfect.

I'm very tactile. I'm a big hugger, one of those huggy people.

My life is a big accident, so where I end up, I think it's all accidents.

It's okay to be two things at once and a paradox. Everybody is. As humans for survival we like to label things in a split second. It is how we don't implode from anxiety.