If it is sweet to be right, then - let's not deny it - it is downright savory to point out that someone else is wrong.
Kathryn SchulzI had drunk our great cultural Kool-Aid about regret, which is that lamenting things that occurred in the past is an absolute waste of time, that we should always look forward and not backward, and that one of the noblest and best things we can do is strive to live a life free of regrets.
Kathryn Schulzdoubt is a skill. credulity ,by contrast, appears to be something very like an instinct
Kathryn SchulzThe miracle of your mind isn't that you can see the world as it is. It's that you can see the world as it isn't.
Kathryn SchulzTake away the ability of an intelligent, principled, hard-working mind to get it wrong, and you take away the whole thing.
Kathryn SchulzA whole lot of us go through life assuming that we are basically right, basically all the time, about basically everything: about our political and intellectual convictions, our religious and moral beliefs, our assessments of other people, our memories, our grasp of facts. As absurd as it sounds when we stop to think about it, our steady state seems to be one of unconsciously assuming that we are very close to omniscient.
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