Upgrade your addictions to the status of preferences. Here's the distinction between an addiction and a preference.

Love is not a matter of what happens in life. It's a matter of what's happening in your heart.

I accept myself completely here and now and consciously experience everything I feel, think, say and do (including my emotion backed addictions) as a necessary part of my growth into higher consciousness.

I have everything I need to enjoy my here and now - unless I am letting my consciousness be dominated by demands and expectations based on the dead past or the imagined future.

We see things not as they are, but as we are. Your addictions distort how you process the enormous flow of information that is constantly flooding in through all of your sensory inputs.

Even when we get what we addictively want, our wanting to keep things that way automatically creates a new addiction.

As we grow in higher consciousness, we discover that it is more important to be the right person then to find the right person.