You are being suffocated by tradition... Why don't you say, 'I am going to build a life for myself, for my time, and make it a work of art'? Your life isn't a work of art ---it's a thirdhand Victorian whatnot shelf, complete with someone else's collection of seashells and hand-carved elephants.
Kurt VonnegutThe surface of Earth heaved and seethed in fecund restlessness. Earth was most fertile where the most death was.
Kurt Vonnegut