I just don't know that shame and fear need to be our teachers; rather, compassion, understanding, and love should be our guides.

I like a woman with priorities.

Call me old-fashioned, but I like my conditioners to be conditioners and my shampoos to be shampoos.

We shouldn't any of us be afraid of teaching protective measures to save lives.

Everyone's hip to the fact that we all do things to accentuate our looks - and it's much more accepted.

There really is something raw about sexuality that's real and good and we must continue to learn to not be ashamed of it. But - we have to honor the reality of practicing safer sex.

I'm all for guys being butch and guys being men. I identify with that and appreciate that. But if I'm going to stab my gay brother in the back who isn't butch and who maybe acts a little bit more effeminate, what good is that?