Love requires that we overcome the traditional and self-defeating fears that place distance between ourselves and others.
Leo BuscagliaThe lover must often say, "I love because I must, because I will it. I love for myself, not for others. I love for the joy it gives me - and incedentally, only - for that joy it gives to others. If they reinforce me it will be good. If they do not, it also will be good, for I will to love."
Leo Buscaglia