You can have anything you want, providing you first let go of wanting it.
Love eliminates fear. Love eliminates anxiety.
Happiness is equal to one's capacity to love.
Misery is complexity. Happiness is simplicity.
The vast majority of people's concept of love is actually hate, more or less. “I need you, I must have you, I can't live without you, you're mine,” is all non-love.
Some of us are seeking happiness where it is and as a result are becoming happier. And others are seeking it blindly in the world where it is not and are becoming more frustrated.