What stays with me most is a general sense of loss, unease, and longing for the past that cannot be relieved.

Sisters, as you know, also have a unique relationship. This is the person who has known you your entire life, who should love you and stand by you no matter what, and yet it's your sister who knows exactly where to drive the knife to hurt you the most.

Poetry is on earth to make you serene, not corrupt your mind, thoughts,or emotions

When I knew I couldn't suffer another moment of pain, and tears fell on my bloody bindings, my mother spoke softly into my ear, encouraging me to go one more hour, one more day, one more week, reminding me of the rewards I would have if I carried on a little longer. In this way, she taught me how to endure — not just the physical trials of footbinding and childbearing but the more torturous pain of the heart, mind, and soul.

You may be desperate, but never let anyone see you as anything less than a cultivated woman.

Let those who believe, believe. Let those who doubt, doubt.

There is no life without death. That is the true meaning of yin and yang