You DO know what to do.
If I want to believe that life is lonely and that nobody loves me, then that is what I will find in my world.
Patience is being at peace with the process of life
Whatever we send out mentally or verbally will come back to us in like form.
I give a portion of my time to helping others. It is good for my own health.
We learn our belief systems as very little children, and then we move through life creating experiences to match our beliefs. Look back in your own life and notice how often you have gone through the same experience.