The quickest way to change your attitude toward pain is to accept the fact that everything that happens to us has been designed for our spiritual growth.

To heal your body, you must first heal your spirit.

Whenever we seek to avoid the responsibility for our own behavior, we do so by attempting to give that responsibility to some other individual or organization or entity. But this means we then give away our power to that entity.

Commitment is inherent in any genuinely loving relationship.

Genuine love is volitional rather than emotional.

How strange that we should ordinarily feel compelled to hide our wounds when we are all wounded.

Abandon the urge to simplify everything, to look for formulas and easy answers, and to begin to think multidimensionally, to glory in the mystery and paradoxes of life, not to be dismayed by the multitude of causes and consequences that are inherent in each experience -- to appreciate the fact that life is complex.