It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.
Mallory OrtbergI don't know of any way to control the subject of one's dreams although I'm fairly certain there are more than a few types of psychoanalysis dedicated to the topic.
Mallory Ortbergo one is right when it comes to destination weddings. Itโs a big ask, requesting people take time off work and fly off to take a cruise just to see you get married, and theyโre perfectly justified in saying no if they donโt have the time, the money, or simply the inclination.
Mallory OrtbergSomeone who has a disability is not necessarily in distress. You may be embarrassing and inconveniencing someone by butting in and making assumptions.
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