You can't prevent a possible future closeness between your upcoming child and one or more of their grandparents.

I don't know of any way to control the subject of one's dreams although I'm fairly certain there are more than a few types of psychoanalysis dedicated to the topic.

If you go out with someone and decide you don't want to see them again, do them the courtesy of saying, "Hey, I had a nice time, but I don't think things are going to work out between us." Only you can help fight ghosting.

It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.

There has to be some kind of personal hygiene bar that a person needs to clear in order for a relationship to be successful.

One of the glorious things about being a person in the world is that you don't have to worry about whether or not someone else is trying to be creepy.

A child is not a bargaining chip or a learning tool. Your focus, if you adopt a child of a different race, should be on nurturing and protecting your child from bigotry, not deploying him or her as an anti-racist Mr. Fix-It.