Diapers do not belong on the same table as food.

To stop challenging someone from using anti-gay language simply because they persist in using anti-gay language strikes me as a defeatist approach.

Many fathers go their entire lives without announcing how sexy their son's old girlfriends are.

I'm pretty sure there's no sexuality that justifies constant low-level harassment.

If and when you do decide to share your experience with your husband, it should be because you feel ready to do so, not for any other reason.

You are allowed to draw lines even if your feelings are irrational. Part of the marvelous business of being an adult human is that you get to set your own boundaries for whatever reasons you like, without appending a sensible rationale to them.

Acting politely in front of someone black and/or gay and then making horrible claims about their intelligence or worth as human beings after they leave the room is not kindness - it's hypocrisy.