You're right to want to minimize your compulsive physical behavior in the workplace before it bothers your co-workers, but I hope very much you can also give yourself credit for the work you're already doing.

It's OK to tell your partner to objectify you. That's part of the fun of having a partner.

You have a wonderful opportunity here to not care about something that doesn’t matter to you. Please don’t miss out on it.

Some struggling marriages can be salvaged with hard work and counseling; others should be dismantled and stripped for parts.

You need to be able to express your resentment and sense of loss in a way that doesn't damage your partner.

You have a right to be treated professionally at work, and it's your supervisor's job to make sure all their employees can perform their duties comfortably and safely.

Don't badger people without children into admitting the secret desire for children you're sure they have to you! Don't badger anyone! Leave the badgering to the badgers.