You're right to want to minimize your compulsive physical behavior in the workplace before it bothers your co-workers, but I hope very much you can also give yourself credit for the work you're already doing.

"Not being virulently and overtly racist against black people" and "treating gay people like human beings" are necessary conditions of greatness.

You can't prevent a possible future closeness between your upcoming child and one or more of their grandparents.

I'm pretty sure there's no sexuality that justifies constant low-level harassment.

You who have suffered so much do not want to be with the kind of person who makes "black widow" jokes to deal with an uncomfortable, painful moment. You should be with a person capable of great compassion and understanding.

You have a right to be treated professionally at work, and it's your supervisor's job to make sure all their employees can perform their duties comfortably and safely.

Five-foot-8 is a perfectly normal height for a woman - it's slightly but not at all unusually tall and certainly shouldn't be causing you any torment.