Don't beat yourself up over what you dream about.

I agree that biphobia is real, but I think it's absolutely worth considering that someone who "despises" having sex with her husband - and men in general - may not be interested in men sexually.

To stop challenging someone from using anti-gay language simply because they persist in using anti-gay language strikes me as a defeatist approach.

I'm of the belief that dating "potential" is almost always an exercise in frustration.

It should go without saying that you are not doing anything wrong by having sex in your own home, and based on the care you've taken to keep things relatively quiet it's unlikely that you're violating any city noise ordinances.

If just one person touches you without your permission, stepping back and saying clearly, "Please don't touch me" should get them to stop.

I'm pretty sure there's no sexuality that justifies constant low-level harassment.